If you happen to suspect that your husband or even boyfriend has lost interest in you, you cannot be completely certain until you ask him. Nevertheless, before you confront him, you can gather a couple of clues to check if your instinct is right. Bear in mind that just one kind of behavior alone may not be sufficient, but if he is showing more than one sign, then it might be time for you two to have a serious talk. Below are some signs that he has fallen out of love with you:
He Gets Irritated Easily
When your man was in love with you, you couldn’t do any wrong. But now that he seems to have fallen out of love with you, you simply can’t seem to do anything the right way. In spite of the extra effort you put in your relationship, you just can’t make him happy anymore. He just can’t stand being around you and even though he won’t tell you this directly, he will let you know by the kind of language he uses, his lack of appreciation for anything you do and his general negative attitude towards you.
Inexplicable Physical Absence
A guy who isn’t interested in you anymore will not want to be around you anymore. He just becomes physically unavailable to you in spite of your concerns and pleas. Either his work increases without any positive change in income or he simply get occupied with his buddies and family. And, for some unknown reasons, he won’t let you be part of his exciting moments with his buddies and family members. If you happen to offer to join them, he’ll give you unreasonable excuses or he just won’t pick you up as planned.
Dramatic Change in Your Intimate Life
Just like women find it quite hard to be physically intimate with their husbands or boyfriends if there is an underlying conflict between them, men are quite the same. If your man has fallen out of love, he’ll generally lose interest in lovemaking. If he happens to have headaches or stays up late in attempt to avoid falling asleep with you, this could be one of the signs that he’s not as intensely in love with you as he was before.
This may seem obvious, but sometimes it’s not. Most men have nonsexual relationships with women and getting jealous of every single woman in his life will eventually rebound and make you appear needy and insecure. Nevertheless, if your man keeps mentioning another woman’s name either by accident or intentionally on a regular basis, it could be because she is the one occupying his thoughts and not you. If he is suddenly not available and there is proof that he is meeting another woman, then it’s a clear sign that he isn’t in love with you anymore.
Lack of Interest in Issues Concerning You
Since he has fallen out of love with you, he’ll no longer be interested in you and the things you care about. He’ll also not open up his heart to you and share with you his concerns and challenges in life. He’ll no longer accompany you to your functions or even invite you to his own; he’ll lose interest in what you’ve got to say about the things you love and won’t tell you about the things he loves either. His behavior is a clear reflection of how he’s feeling about you.